Mother's Day is Dani's first time to go malling

Today's been a long day .

My busy day started with a breakfast with my mom, Peter (a Canadian), and Celsa at Jollibee. My mom and I asked about how I could possibly migrate to Canada with my family. He told me a lot of possibilities. I could go there first and work for two years. After a couple of years, he said I could sponsor my whole family. He said the first two years would definitely be difficult but after that, he assured me that life will be a lot better because I will have a chance to get whatever work I want. And he said that in Canada, "kids take care of themselves " -- financially. That's because there is free education, free medical services, etc. The thing is, I think I can't live even for a single day without my kids, esp. my babyluvs. But I am not dismissing the idea that someday, somehow, my family and I will be able to migrate to Canada or to UK.

While taking our order at Jollibee, my mom received a text message that said "Mom is celebrating Mother's Day with dad." The message came from Ninang Tessa whose dad passed away May last year. I felt sad for her. She lost her dad last year, and now, she lost her mom. Siyempre, masakit mawala ang sinumang mahal sa buhay.

In the house, my kids and my Hani were swimming (in a huge portable swimming pool) for a couple of hours while I was with Dani who was having a nap.

In the afternoon, we went to SM Clark. We started buying school materials for the kids. This is Dani's first time to go malling :-) We went home tired but happy of course!

At the end of the day, I thought: How can I leave my wonderful family in exchange for dollars?

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